I'm about to be a part time nightclub photographer for a website and take pictures of people at nightclubs at all types of clubs in the city. I was gonna do this to make money on the side but the most important reason I did it was to meet women. I remember you said having 'pull' at nightclubs and ofcourse you always mention being different somehow or having something that separates you from everybody else, in a good way of course. So my question is, is this a good job to take to meet women? How would you use this to your advantage and can this be seen as a alpha type of position or beta, etc. I was thinking it could interpreted as either alpha or beta depending on how you position yourself but then again I'm thinking it wouldn't matter because dudes who work in service/hospitality jobs get chicks all the time, bartenders, bouncers, high end clothing salesmen, etc. Thanks in my advance my dude.

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I have a random question about women's motivations. Lately, a few women that I meet mention that they recently broke up with their bf's within about the first 5-10 minutes of conversation. They then go into a little detail about the guy and the reasons for the breakup. I'm very confused by this type of behavior. Now, these are not women that I explicitly open up. This stuff happens during what I think is friendly conversation. I met one of them during new student orientation for 1st year law school students. I met another one during a cross country flight (she was sitting next to me and we started talking about 2 hours into the flight after I awoke from a nap). Both of these women were hot and obviously single. In response to their choice of the topic of conversation, I clammed up and decided not open them, choosing the friend route instead. My thinking is that these women have too much drama associated with them. I remain decent but not great friends with them today. A couple of questions. Why would these women decide to tell a complete stranger about their ex? Did I deal with the situation correctly by choosing to just be friends with them or did I miss a sweet opportunity?

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If you were to ask me what I believe to be the biggest improvement from the time I started this blog and now, I would tell you that my biggest improvement is that I think before I game a girl. This is actually an improvement that occurred quite recently, and it is probably a result of having been with so many women. It's one of those improvements that you don't go out to intentionally do, but it just naturally occurs as a result of experience. Let's perform a little experiment. Go back, and look at your previous field reports. Now look at the moments when you lost a girl that was intitially into you or trying to give you a chance. Chances are, now that you're looking at those situations, I'm willing to bet that you know exactly what you should have done differently in a lot of them. In other words, it's not that you didn't know what to do, it's that you simply didn't do it.

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But why did you do the wrong thing if you knew exactly what to do? For the same reason I did: you got caught up in the moment, nervous, or over-excited. Either way, you didn't stop and think before your next move. For example, in this story, I got so excited, thinking that I'm the shit. I got all cocky and walked away just to show off (that I could afford to throw away easy pussy). Now had I stopped and thought for a few seconds, I would have realized that it would have been an incredibly easy threesome and made it happen with almost no effort. Getting back to you guys, how many times have you been running attraction, and then ended up saying something that you know you shouldn't have said? I'm not talking about things that you researched after the fact, I'm talking about things that you had prior knowledge of before you even entered the set. I would say almost all of you. These simple little mistakes can be corrected if you actually take a few seconds to gather your thoughts before making your next move with a girl.

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You will make a lot of stupid mistakes that will cost you the girl if you don't think before you game. If you rush to speak, you run a high risk of making a stupid, easily preventable, mistake. However, women will almost NEVER hold it against you if you take your time to think before you open your mouth, text them, or take action.* You should always remember that. Think before you game, and watch your flake rates and blowouts drop dramatically.

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